"그거 사랑 아냐" 데이트폭력 피해자에게 하고 싶은 말

"사랑해서 용서.. 그거"

 

데이트폭력·가정폭력 피해자들이 자주 하는 말입니다. '이타적 망상'이라 불리는 현상입니다. 폭력을 당하고도 이런식으로 넘어가다 나중에 크게 후회한다고 합니다. 1366여성긴급전화 선임상담원 이모 씨가 그간 상담하며 느껴온 솔직한 이야기를 전합니다.

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